Relationships: 4 Key Factors for Satisfying Relationships
- Trust- How long exactly does it take to earn trust? For most of us we like to believe that we have trust issues when it comes to relationships. Typically we use the crutch of saying that somewhere along the lines someone did something to us that makes us not trust all of the opposite gender. Men give it as their validation for not wanting to settling down and women give it as their validation for acting out of their normal context. Typically though, we all give a prospective partner the benefit of the doubt until they prove us wrong. That doesn’t mean that we don’t keep our eyes open for the ‘red flags’ we call ourselves stupid for not recognizing in times past. We, as humans, may be more cautious but it doesn’t mean that we don’t trust ever again. Once trust is broken in a relationship you might as well think of the engine being blown in a car. It’s certainly not going anywhere without extreme investment and for relationships that means extensive time and open communication.
- Communication– For ANY relationship, not just a love interest, communication is a must. Once communication ceases, so does the relationship. As females we ‘expect’ men to know what we want and need. We expect him to pay attention to small subliminal clues we give him in the month leading up to our birthday, Valentine’s Day, Christmas, etc. Listen ladies, it’s just not realistic. Let’s face it. Men prefer for us to spell it out for them. The KISS (Keep it simple stupid) method works well, if you are familiar. Communicate how you feel, what you want, and any expectations that you may have of your significant other. And Men, please try to pay attention!
- Loyalty– IF you aren’t happy with the person you are with then maybe it’s time for you to make a change. That doesn’t mean keep your relationship and look for a side chic/man. It simply means open up your communication lines and find out what has changed that has caused you to lose interest. Is it short term? Is it long term? Either way if loyalty is challenged then so will the relationship! IT causes a ripple effect which will create a lack of the aforementioned key factors. If you are unable to remain loyal, do us all a favor and stay single!
- NEVER STOP DATING– This is such an important aspect of any relationship! Whatever you did to win their love you must continue to do it. Falling into a normal routine may be life but it should never be so much so that you forget about the one who is by your side to help you along the way. Make time. There are no excuses. If interest has been lost its likely because you have forgotten to do the things you did when you felt those butterflies in your stomach and made you want to start on this journey with your partner.
Love is not easy, it is work. It’s not going to be effortless and once you stop putting in effort you will stop feeling the way you once did. A relationship is like a box; if you stop putting things into the box it will eventually be empty.
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Amanda R Doyle, BSQP
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